Lately, I've been thinking much about the Parable of the Good Samaritan.

In this story, found in Luke 10, Jesus is responding to a lawyer who asks a crucial question: how to gain eternal life. Jesus turns the inquiry back on the man: "What is written in the Law? How do you read it?"

The lawyer replies with the core commandments: "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself.”

Jesus commends him and encourages him to "Do this, and you will live." But the lawyer, looking to justify himself, shoots back with the defining question: "And who is my neighbor?"

Jesus answers with the parable.

"Mom, are you and Dad going to Timmy's for dinner on Thursday?"

"I don't know. We need to talk first, then decide what to do after," she replied. "Right now I don't feel like going." 

So, this is what it’s come to. This might really be the first Thanksgiving without my folks, I thought. I didn't want this whole thing to be the reason the holiday was ruined.

My heart wanted to move forward, but there was an obvious impasse. Since our blow up over the phone, we hadn't talked for a week. After, I had exchanged some texts with Mom. Thinking I was clever, I used Google Translate to ensure my texts got across in her native tongue. Write in English, translate into "Chinese (Traditional)," then copy and paste into iMessage. My mother can't misinterpret this in any way, right? 

My sister, of course, texts me a few hours later. "I think things are getting misconstrued via text/email and some things just don’t translate well I’m assuming." Translation: bro, you're an idiot. Did you really think text messages via Google Translate is gonna get you out of this mess??

The weekend started with such joy and anticipation. 

It was Saturday morning, and I had just finished teaching a church membership class. As I was driving back home to round up the fam, as we were to attend a birthday party shortly after, I got the following message from the wifey:

"Mommom cut mm’s hair. I’m pissed."

Uh oh. I've never heard her use those words before in a text. A few seconds later, I see a stream of exploding angry face emojis. This was bad. I pushed on the pedal, hoping to catch things before it erupted.

I got home and went straight to the bedroom. "How bad is it?" 

Micah turned around, his bangs were gone. Just like that—with some unthinkable, impermissible, god-forbidden snips—he went from the K-pop mop to looking like Lloyd from Dumb & Dumber. 

"Oh boy, that's bad." A lot of words ran through my head, most of them four letters containing F or S. (Go ahead and buy some vowels! says Pat.)

It was Carissa's first day of preschool. I wasn't sure what to expect, but all I knew was that I had to brace myself for tantrums and tears.

After 12 minutes or so on the road, we pulled up to the parking lot. The building was attached to a church that was hidden by a cluster of trees. As we passed the playground and entered through an olive-colored gate, I was preparing myself for resistance.

How loud will she scream? How much will she cry? The number of limbs she'll be clinging onto…over or under three? With every step, I was smarting over the fact that Mommy had somehow passed this burden onto me.

When we entered the classroom, it was bright and lively, full of faces and voices. One of the teachers walked right up and introduced herself, taking her by the hand. "Hi, I'm Ms. Liz. What's your name?"

This past Sunday, I was ordained as a minister.

It happened in a small ceremony as part of our church’s regular Sunday service. The pastors and elders invited me up to share a few words, then they prayed over me. It was a short yet meaningful time.

Those of you who know my story might recall my long journey to get to this point. I remember sitting in a service over 12 years ago, casually listening to a sermon, when I felt this sudden impression from God. I don’t even remember what the pastor was talking about. But I sensed a message inside of me that was akin to, “I want you to be a shepherd and feed my flock. I want you to be a pastor.”

God doesn’t usually speak to me in such a way. But I had no reason to doubt it was him. And yet, in that moment, I felt a great sense of dread and fear come upon me. Like, God I think you got the wrong guy. What would my parents think? How would I be able to support a future family? The list of excuses kept rising to the surface.